You do not have to go to court to get divorced

People often assume that they must go to court if they want to get divorced. This is often how divorce cases play out, but it is definitely not mandatory. You have a lot of potential resolutions that keep you out of the courtroom. 

Examples include arbitration, mediation, or a collaborative divorce. All offer tactics to help you end your marriage without ever having to step before a judge. This means that you do not turn over the decision-making power to a judge, either, so you do not have the court system telling you what life is going to look like in the future. You make those decisions on your own. 

For instance, with both collaborative divorce and mediation, the goal is for you and your spouse to work together. This means having conversations, exploring creative ideas and even making compromises. You need to be on good enough terms to work together in this fashion. 

You also need to understand why you want to stay out of court. For a lot of couples, the lower cost is a big reason. For many, they also want to avoid bringing their children to court. They want the power to make decisions for their children without having anyone else dictate their lives and their relationships. 

No matter why you choose one of these methods, just make sure you know what legal steps to take. You will find that you have a lot of alternatives that can help your divorce case look nothing like you may have imagined, and that really is a game-changer for a lot of couples who are worried about the court process. 


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