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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Can a court divide the increase in separate property value?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50825</id>
            <updated>2026-07-31T13:04:34Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-31T13:04:34Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[A home, investment account or business interest may begin as your separate property. During your marriage, however, the asset might increase greatly in value. You may wonder who benefits from that growth, especially when shared income, work or improvements helped raise its value. In Washington, an increase usually remains separate when the asset itself qualifies as separate property. However, courts…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/07/can-a-court-divide-the-increase-in-separate-property-value/"><![CDATA[A home, investment account or business interest may begin as your separate property. During your marriage, however, the asset might increase greatly in value. You may wonder who benefits from that growth, especially when shared income, work or improvements helped raise its value.

In Washington, an increase usually remains separate when the asset itself qualifies as separate property. However, courts may divide both separate and community property <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/terms/e/equitable-division.asp" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">in a way they consider fair</a> based on the facts. When marital funds or labor increase the value of a separate asset, the marital estate may also have a right to reimbursement.
<h2>Market forces and marital effort affect growth differently</h2>
An asset may gain value through market forces rather than anything you or your spouse did. Stock prices may rise, or land might become more valuable as demand grows. When marital money or work did not cause the increase, the growth usually remains separate property.

The result may differ when either spouse helped increase the asset’s value. One spouse might manage a separately owned business, improve a rental home or use marital income to reduce a loan. A court may consider whether those contributions added value and whether the spouse who performed the work received fair pay.
<h2>Records may connect marital contributions to the gain</h2>
Marital labor or funds do not automatically turn the full increase into community property. When those contributions caused part of the gain, the marital estate may have a right to reimbursement. A court could protect that right with an equitable lien, which places a financial claim against the asset.

The spouse who seeks reimbursement usually needs evidence that links marital money or work to the increase. Consider keeping account statements, loan records, tax returns and receipts for improvements. Business records might show each spouse’s contribution to the company’s value.

These documents help separate gains caused by market conditions from growth produced through marital effort. They also give the court a stronger basis for reviewing a reimbursement request.
<h2>Prepare to support your position</h2>
It is understandable to worry when shared effort affects separate property. Identifying what caused the growth and gathering records of marital contributions could clarify each spouse’s position and <a href="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/divorce-concerns/dividing-significant-assets/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">support a fair division</a>.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Canfield Madow Law Group, PLLC</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Property division challenges in long-term marriages]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50823</id>
            <updated>2026-07-24T23:02:51Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-24T23:02:51Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Property division is complicated in any divorce, but divorcing after decades of marriage can make it even more challenging. By the time a couple has been married 20, 30 or even 40 years, they’ve accumulated significant assets, blended their finances and made joint financial decisions that can be difficult to untangle. If you are considering a divorce after several years…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/07/property-division-challenges-in-long-term-marriages/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">Property division is complicated in any divorce, but divorcing after decades of marriage can make it even more challenging. By the time a couple has been married 20, 30 or even 40 years, they’ve accumulated significant assets, blended their finances and made joint financial decisions that can be difficult to untangle.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">If you are considering a divorce after several years of marriage, understanding how property division works and common issues in long-term marriages can help you make informed decisions and make wise financial choices.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Washington is a community property state</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">In Washington, any assets and debts acquired during the marriage are generally considered owned jointly by both spouses. Many people assume that means everything is divided equally. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">In reality, courts strive for a division that is</span><a href="https://app.leg.wa.gov/rcw/default.aspx?cite=26.09.080" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"> <span style="font-weight: 400">just and equitable</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> based on each case’s circumstances. Careful evaluation of the couple’s entire financial picture requires the court to consider factors such as the nature of the property, the length of the marriage and each spouse’s financial situation after the divorce.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">One of the biggest challenges is identifying which assets are considered community property and which remain separate property.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Separate property typically includes assets that were owned before the marriage or acquired individually through gifts or inheritance. However, after many years together, those assets may become commingled with the marital finances.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Long-term marriages frequently involve assets that are not easily valued or divided. Retirement accounts, vacation homes, investment portfolios, family businesses and professional practices may all require careful analysis that requires the services of business valuation experts, accountants or financial professionals.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Retirement savings often take center stage as they represent a couple’s largest marital asset. Pensions, 401(k)s, IRAs and other retirement accounts accumulated over decades are often substantial, and dividing them requires careful planning to avoid unnecessary taxes and penalties.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Because retirement is often approaching quickly or is already underway in long-term marriages, decisions made during the divorce can significantly impact each spouse’s financial security.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">The end of a</span><a href="/divorce-concerns/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"> <span style="font-weight: 400">long-term marriage</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> is both a financial and emotional transition. Still, with the right legal guidance and careful planning, you can navigate the process with greater confidence.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What to consider if you plan to keep your home post-divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50822</id>
            <updated>2026-07-12T13:45:33Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-12T13:45:33Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Your family home is likely one of the most valuable assets you’ll need to address in your divorce. Many divorcing couples who own their home jointly have no realistic option financially other than to sell their home and divide the proceeds. If, however, you believe you can afford to buy out your soon-to-be ex’s share of the home (or give…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/07/what-to-consider-if-you-plan-to-keep-your-home-post-divorce/"><![CDATA[Your family home is likely one of the most valuable assets you’ll need to address in your divorce. Many divorcing couples who own their home jointly have no realistic option financially other than to sell their home and divide the proceeds.

If, however, you believe you can afford to buy out your soon-to-be ex’s share of the home (or give them something of equivalent value) and continue to live there, it’s critical to determine whether owning the home yourself is going to be feasible moving forward.
<h2>Getting an accurate valuation</h2>
First, you’ll need to know the home’s current market value. This should be determined by a professional whose assessment you can both accept. If home values are in flux in your area, this can make getting an accurate valuation you can both agree on challenging.

If you have a mortgage, you’ll likely need to refinance that solely in your name. You’ll want to be sure you can qualify on your own.
<h2>Ensuring that you can afford to maintain it</h2>
Even if you can <a href="https://goodmenproject.com/divorce/dividing-the-family-home-in-divorce-equity-buyouts-and-what-couples-regret/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">afford to keep the home</a>, it’s crucial to make sure you can also afford to maintain it. That means factoring in expenses like insurance, property taxes and homeowners’ association (HOA) dues in addition to monthly utility and other costs.

If there are things that your spouse took care of, you may have to hire professionals to do them. This could be anything from lawn and pool maintenance to cleaning and more. It’s important to factor in those costs.

Finally, you’ll want to look at how keeping the home fits into your larger <a href="/dividing-significant-assets/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">property division settlement</a>. Are you giving your spouse other assets in return for the home that you’ll need to spend money to replace, for example, or giving up a large share of your retirement or investment assets?

There are many good reasons to want to keep your family home when your marriage ends. Maybe you put a lot of work into it over the years. Perhaps you’ve become an integral part of the community. Maybe the home simply has a lot of sentimental value.

When making this decision, it’s critical to have sound legal guidance. It’s also wise to consult with financial, tax and real estate professionals. This can help you make the best decision for your future uniquely.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Canfield Madow Law Group, PLLC</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Why business valuation matters in a high-asset divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50820</id>
            <updated>2026-07-01T23:00:25Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-01T23:00:25Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If you or your spouse owns a business, its value can significantly affect the outcome of a high-asset divorce. Whether the business is marital property or separate property, determining its fair value often plays a central role in negotiating or litigating property division. A thorough business valuation helps ensure that both spouses receive a fair outcome and reduces the risk…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/07/why-business-valuation-matters-in-a-high-asset-divorce/"><![CDATA[If you or your spouse owns a business, its value can significantly affect the outcome of a high-asset divorce. Whether the business is marital property or separate property, <a href="https://www.investopedia.com/terms/f/fairmarketvalue.asp" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">determining its fair value</a> often plays a central role in negotiating or litigating property division.

A thorough business valuation helps ensure that both spouses receive a fair outcome and reduces the risk of costly disputes.
<h2>Why business valuation is necessary</h2>
Before a court or the parties can divide property fairly, they must understand what the business is worth. An accurate valuation establishes the company's reasonable value and helps determine whether all or part of the business belongs in the marital estate.

Even if only one spouse operates the business, the other spouse may have a claim to a portion of its value if the business grew during the marriage or if marital assets contributed to its success.
<h2>How professionals value a business</h2>
Business valuation requires more than reviewing financial statements. Valuation professionals often analyze several factors, including:
<ul>
 	<li>The company's assets and liabilities</li>
 	<li>Revenue, profits and cash flow</li>
 	<li>The business's earning potential</li>
 	<li>Industry conditions and market trends</li>
 	<li>Goodwill and intangible assets</li>
 	<li>Existing debts and financial obligations</li>
</ul>
Depending on the business, experts may use different valuation methods to reach a reliable estimate of its value.
<h2>Why valuation disputes arise</h2>
Business owners and their spouses often disagree about what a company is worth. Disputes may involve:
<ul>
 	<li>Whether the business qualifies as marital or separate property</li>
 	<li>The appropriate valuation method</li>
 	<li>Hidden income or undisclosed assets</li>
 	<li>The value of goodwill</li>
 	<li>Future earning potential</li>
</ul>
Because these issues can affect the property division, both parties often rely on financial experts to support their positions.
<h2>How business valuation affects property division</h2>
A business owner does not always have to sell the company during a divorce. Instead, the valuation helps the parties or the court determine how to divide the marital estate fairly. Depending on the circumstances, one spouse may keep the business while the other receives different assets of comparable value or a financial offset.

A reliable valuation also helps facilitate settlement negotiations by giving both spouses a realistic understanding of the business's worth.
<h2>Why legal guidance matters</h2>
High-asset divorces involving business ownership require careful financial analysis and strategic legal planning. Even small disagreements about valuation can lead to significant differences in the final property division.

<a href="/contact/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">An experienced family law attorney</a> can work with qualified valuation professionals, protect your financial interests and advocate for a fair resolution. If your divorce involves a privately owned business, obtaining an accurate valuation is one of the most important steps you can take to safeguard your future.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Canfield Madow Law Group, PLLC</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What are good-faith reasons for relocation?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50819</id>
            <updated>2026-07-01T12:59:48Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-01T12:59:48Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Relocation can be a bit complex for divorced parents who share child custody rights. When they both have joint physical custody rights, moving with the children could violate the custody order. If one parent moves two hours away, for example, it may become impossible to make exchanges on the schedule that was established by the court. As such, parents often…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/07/what-are-good-faith-reasons-for-relocation/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">Relocation can be a bit complex for divorced parents who share child custody rights. When they both have joint physical custody rights, moving with the children could violate the custody order. If one parent moves two hours away, for example, it may become impossible to make exchanges on the schedule that was established by the court.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">As such, parents often have to seek a </span><a href="https://www.findlaw.com/family/child-custody/child-custody-relocation-laws.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">modification of the custody order</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> so that they can relocate. Part of the process may be providing good-faith reasons or justification for the move. Examples include moving closer to extended family members, looking for affordable housing, going to college or taking a new job offer.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Why are these sometimes required?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">The court may ask for these reasons when deciding if it should approve the modification. The goal is simply to determine if the parent who wants to relocate has a valid reason for moving and is trying to improve their life and, by association, the child's life.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">After all, some parents try to relocate in an effort to keep the other parent from seeing the children. But if the court has already ordered that the two have to share custody, that would mean that the parent is only doing so to try to infringe on those custody rights. If the court believes that is the parent's only goal, it is unlikely to approve the necessary modification.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Complications like this can sometimes lead to disputes between parents or accusations that one person has intentionally violated the custody order. When these types of disputes arise, parents must be well aware of their </span><a href="/parenting-issues/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">legal options</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">.</span>

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									                    <name>On Behalf of Canfield Madow Law Group, PLLC</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How could divorce affect your business operations?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/06/how-could-divorce-affect-your-business-operations/" />
            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50818</id>
            <updated>2026-06-24T16:42:20Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-24T16:42:20Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Divorce may put pressure on your business before anything formally changes. When you own a company, divorce proceedings could take your time and focus away from work. If that happens, employees, customers and business partners may notice delays or uncertainty from the people they rely on for leadership. The day-to-day may face a slowdown Daily operations usually depend on quick…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/06/how-could-divorce-affect-your-business-operations/"><![CDATA[Divorce may put pressure on your business before anything formally changes. When you own a company, divorce proceedings could take your time and focus away from work. If that happens, employees, customers and business partners may notice delays or uncertainty from the people they rely on for leadership.
<h2>The day-to-day may face a slowdown</h2>
Daily operations usually depend on quick answers and clear authority. <a href="https://familybusiness.org/content/divorce-can-hollow-out-a-family-business-but-it-doesnt-have-to" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">The added distraction of divorce proceedings</a> could make your schedule harder to manage. Routine approvals may take longer than usual. A manager might wait to confirm a purchase, while a client could receive a slower response about a project.

Those delays may seem minor at first, but they often raise questions about who makes decisions and when work should move ahead. Personal issues could also enter the workplace when both spouses have roles in the company. You may want to consider a practical communication plan for staff duties, client contact and vendor decisions. This helps employees understand their duties without having to guess.
<h2>Growth plans might become harder to manage</h2>
Growth plans depend on organized records and steady cash flow. During a divorce, you might need a fuller picture of the company’s income, debts, payroll and owner pay. If those records are spread across different files or accounts, even basic questions could take longer to answer.

The delay may affect decisions about hiring, equipment purchases or a new lease. For example, you may have planned to hire another employee or buy new equipment. If the company’s income, debt or owner pay is under review as part of the divorce process, larger business expenses might take a while to get approval.

The company’s value may also depend on how much it relies on your daily work. When one owner handles every major client, vendor or approval, the operation could appear less steady during a personal transition.
<h2>Clear structure keeps the business moving</h2>
Divorce may bring personal pressure into your business, but good organization often helps reduce confusion. Steady communication could help employees and customers understand what to expect. Over time, that structure may keep the company focused on its work instead of the conflict around it. Even as you <a href="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/divorce-concerns/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">navigate the process</a> of divorce, your business may continue serving clients and supporting employees.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Tips for telling your children about your divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50817</id>
            <updated>2026-06-23T16:09:02Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-23T16:08:18Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Parents who make the decision to divorce have to determine how they’re going to tell their children. This is often one of the most difficult conversations they’ll ever have, but it’s one that can’t be avoided if the divorce is going to move forward.  If you’re in this position, you need to be sure that you have a plan for…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/06/tips-for-telling-your-children-about-your-divorce/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">Parents who make the decision to divorce have to determine how they’re going to tell their children. This is often one of the most difficult conversations they’ll ever have, but it’s one that can’t be avoided if the divorce is going to move forward. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">If you’re in this position, you need to be sure that you have a plan </span><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/unhitched/202601/how-to-tell-your-children-you-are-getting-divorced" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">for telling your children</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">. This isn’t something you can just blurt out. These tips may be beneficial as you prepare for this conversation. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Consider having both parents present</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">If possible, you and your ex should tell the children together. Even though they may not realize it, having both parents there shows the children that they still have both parents' support. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Choose an appropriate place and time</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">You should choose a quiet and private location to have this talk with your kids. You also need to choose a time when you won’t have to rush. These conversations can be filled with emotions, and it may take a while to explain everything in an age-appropriate manner. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Prepare for difficult questions</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">Your children will likely have questions about how life will be after the divorce. Be truthful, but don’t say anything you aren’t sure you can keep up with. They may also question the reason for the divorce. If that’s the case, be sure you don’t say anything that could be taken as blaming each other. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">It may be beneficial if you and your ex can have a </span><a href="/divorce-concerns/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">simple parenting plan</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> when you talk to the children. This gives both parents an idea of how custody will work, and both parents can follow it since it’s in writing. Getting that parenting plan together can be difficult, so it might be worth discussing this with someone familiar with the process. </span>

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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[7 documents to bring to your divorce consultation]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50816</id>
            <updated>2026-06-15T15:17:11Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-15T15:17:11Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Thinking about divorce can feel overwhelming. You may have questions about your children, your finances or your home and other property. You may also be unsure about what to bring to your first meeting with an attorney. You do not need perfectly organized documents before a consultation. However, certain records can help your attorney understand your finances and family situation.…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/06/7-documents-to-bring-to-your-divorce-consultation/"><![CDATA[Thinking about divorce can feel overwhelming. You may have questions about your children, your finances or your home and other property. You may also be unsure about what to bring to your first meeting with an attorney.

You do not need perfectly organized documents before a consultation. However, certain records can help your attorney understand your finances and family situation.
<h2>Documents that can help you prepare for a divorce consultation</h2>
Every divorce involves different facts and concerns. The following documents can give your attorney a better picture of your finances, property and family:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Income and tax records:</strong> Tax returns, pay stubs and other proof of income.</li>
 	<li><strong>Bank and investment statements:</strong> Statements for bank and investment accounts.</li>
 	<li><strong>Retirement statements:</strong> Statements for pensions, 401(k)s and retirement accounts.</li>
 	<li><strong>Real estate documents:</strong> Deeds, mortgage statements and property records.</li>
 	<li><strong>Business records:</strong> Documents showing business ownership and finances.</li>
 	<li><strong>Documents about your children:</strong> <a href="https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=26.09.187" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">Parenting plans</a>, school schedules and childcare information.</li>
 	<li><strong>Legal agreements and court orders:</strong> Prenuptial agreements, protection orders and family court orders.</li>
</ul>
You may not have every document on this list. Even a few of these documents can make the discussion more productive.
<h2>Making the most of your consultation</h2>
A divorce consultation gives you an opportunity to discuss your situation and ask questions about <a href="/divorce-concerns/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">the divorce process</a>. Bringing the documents you have can make that conversation more productive and help you better understand what your divorce may involve.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[2 ways a military career impacts a divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50815</id>
            <updated>2026-06-09T15:02:03Z</updated>
            <published>2026-06-09T15:02:03Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If you are a member of the military and you and your spouse have discussed divorce, it is important to consider the intersection between the two. There are some significant ways that being a military member can actually affect how a divorce plays out, along with the post-divorce agreements that you and your ex sign. First and foremost, the Servicemembers…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/06/2-ways-a-military-career-impacts-a-divorce/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">If you are a member of the military and you and your spouse have discussed divorce, it is important to consider the intersection between the two. There are some significant ways that being a military member can actually affect how a divorce plays out, along with the post-divorce agreements that you and your ex sign.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">First and foremost, the </span><a href="https://www.militaryonesource.mil/financial-legal/legal/servicemembers-civil-relief-act/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">Servicemembers Civil Relief Act</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> can sometimes delay divorce proceedings. As a member of the military, it may be difficult for you to respond to a divorce petition, attend hearings and take other legal steps due to your service to the country. You can often request a 90-day stay, which can sometimes be extended, if necessary. This pauses the divorce case and gives you additional time to respond.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">Child custody issues</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">The SCRA is often used when a military member is deployed and their spouse files for divorce. The automatic stay can help put the divorce on hold until they return to the United States.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">But deployment can also affect future child custody issues.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">This is not to say that a military member cannot get custody of their children. But many civilians will have a simple schedule, such as exchanging the children every other week. If a military member is deployed for a significant amount of time—the average is between </span><a href="https://www.uso.org/stories/2871-how-long-is-a-military-deployment" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400">six and 12 months</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">—it could be impossible for them to have this type of custody schedule.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">As such, you and your ex may have to find an alternative custody schedule that allows you to have visitation rights or even custody of the children on a flexible schedule that applies when you are home.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">A military divorce can be complicated, and that is why it is so important for you to understand exactly </span><a href="/divorce-concerns/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">what legal options you have</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">.</span>

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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How the privacy of mediation can help parents during divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.canfieldmadow.com/?p=50814</id>
            <updated>2026-05-25T17:37:21Z</updated>
            <published>2026-05-25T17:37:21Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Divorcing parents who need to share custody face a much more complicated process than those who can make a clean break. In addition to finding solutions for property division, they also need to split up parental rights and responsibilities. There are more opportunities for conflict, and the stakes are much more emotional than in cases where the only concerns are…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/blog/2026/05/how-the-privacy-of-mediation-can-help-parents-during-divorce/"><![CDATA[Divorcing parents who need to share custody face a much more complicated process than those who can make a clean break. In addition to finding solutions for property division, they also need to split up parental rights and responsibilities.

There are more opportunities for conflict, and the stakes are much more emotional than in cases where the only concerns are financial in nature. Parents preparing for divorce may agree to attend mediation to work through their disagreements. The mediation process can be especially beneficial for parents who are about to divorce. The privacy of mediation is one of the most important benefits it offers.
<h2>Parents can discuss family needs openly</h2>
Litigating custody issues in court creates several challenges. Parents need evidence of any alleged misconduct if they expect a judge to factor their concerns into their custody determinations. Litigation tends to increase conflict levels, which can be stressful for everyone in the family, <a href="https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/children-high-conflict-divorce-face-many-challenges" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">especially the children</a>. Additionally, parents have to question whether what they reveal in custody proceedings might affect their reputations with the community or their children.

Mediation provides an opportunity to discuss concerns in a confidential environment. Parents can talk about substance abuse, anger management concerns and other issues that could influence the best way to divide parenting time and authority. They do not need evidence to discuss their concerns and have them taken seriously. Additionally, the need to work together can help them develop a better co-parenting dynamic.

For parents who do not yet agree on property division and custody matters early in a divorce, mediation can be a way to limit the harm the divorce may otherwise cause their relationship with one another and the emotional impact it has on their children. <a href="https://www.canfieldmadow.com/alternatives-to-litigation/" data-wpel-link="internal">Discussing litigation alternatives</a> with a skilled legal team can help empower parents to choose the best path for their family’s unique needs.]]></content>
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