Many couples have such intense emotional reactions to divorce that litigation is the only solution. They rely on a judge to settle their disputes because their perspectives on the marriage do not align. Neither can agree with the other about what is fair regarding their property or best for the children that they share.
Some couples currently disagree on the details of an upcoming divorce but want to avoid the messiness of litigation. They don’t want to air their dirty laundry and family court and waste money arguing in front of a judge. Divorce mediation is a reasonable alternative for those who would like to avoid the stress and expense of divorce litigation.
What benefits can mediation offer to those preparing for divorce in Washington?
Space for difficult discussions
While people may not like the idea of discussing marital issues in court, touching on those concerns is often still necessary. Whether they need to discuss wasteful spending when dividing their property or substance abuse issues when talking about custody, couples discuss marital issues in mediation without making that information public. Mediation offers a confidential environment in which to evaluate difficult marital issues.
Control over the terms
Maybe there is a child with special needs in the family who requires very specific custody arrangements. Perhaps the spouses started a business together and need to set specific terms for addressing the company in their divorce. Nothing is left to the interpretation of a judge if spouses successfully negotiate matters in mediation. They can settle their own property division, child custody and financial support issues without giving up control over the process.
A faster divorce
Divorce litigation can drastically increase how long it takes to finalize a divorce. Couples have to wait for their day in court. Even after they have a hearing, it can take quite some time for the judge to review all of the available information and determine how to resolve different marital issues. When couples successfully mediate, they set their own arrangements and only need a judge to review those terms to approve them. Mediation often leads to a much faster divorce process and may also help spouses control the costs.
Discussing mediation can be a viable option for those who want to divorce with dignity and privacy. Alternatives to divorce litigation, like mediation, take much of the uncertainty and frustration out of the divorce process.
