In theory, marriage is a commitment that is meant to last for life. In practice, quite a few couples call it quits while both spouses are still alive. Divorce is sometimes the result of many years of frustrating marital struggles. Other times, it may seem to come out of the blue.
Those who notice certain warning signs may be able to predict when their spouse is about to file for divorce. They can then take steps to protect themselves, such as obtaining copies of financial records and creating an inventory of marital assets before they leave the marital home.
What are some of the early warning signs that divorce could be the best option for a particular couple?
A marital cold war
Many people think of dramatic fights as a red flag for an upcoming divorce. However, arguments are often an indicator that someone remains invested in the marital relationship. The end of overt conflict can be a warning sign of an upcoming divorce. Especially when coupled with stonewalling during arguments or a complete refusal to communicate, a lack of disputes or arguments might be a sign that one spouse has withdrawn from the relationship.
A change in grooming or appearance
It is quite common for people to become comfortable in marital relationships and to express that comfort by making less of an investment in their appearance. Married people sometimes put on weight and pay less attention to their appearance because they already have a committed partner and do not need to attract the interest of others.
When one spouse suddenly reverses that behavior by going to the gym, investing in their wardrobe or prioritizing a new beauty regimen, that may be an indicator that they expect their circumstances to change. It can also be a warning sign of marital infidelity in some cases.
Missing personal property
Those preparing for divorce may spend weeks getting themselves into the best position possible. They might start moving certain items into storage or even giving them to friends and family to hold. They may not start with obvious items like furniture and kitchen equipment. Instead, hobby equipment and other items that their spouse is unlikely to use may be among the first resources to disappear from the marital home. Someone moving their property into storage can be a red flag of imminent divorce on the horizon.
Individuals who think that their spouses may be about to file for divorce can take steps to protect themselves. Learning about the law and documenting marital circumstances can help people ensure they obtain a fair outcome if divorce is, indeed, imminent.
