It is commonly believed that children have the right to choose which parent to stay with once they are mature or old enough, but this is untrue. In Washington, even if a child may feel confident in their choice, custody is a much more complicated and delicate...
Custody & Parenting
Custody and parenting basics for a mom seeking divorce
Going through a divorce is not easy, especially when children are involved. As a mother, balancing your emotional well-being with your child’s needs can feel overwhelming. Understanding how custody works and what courts consider when determining parenting arrangements...
What is a parenting evaluation in Washington?
A parenting evaluation, or child custody evaluation, is an assessment that a parent or court can request to determine the recommended custody arrangement that best fits a child’s interests. It involves the presence of a licensed psychologist, who will conduct...
What may lead to involuntary termination of your parental rights?
Involuntary termination of parental rights represents the most serious action courts can take in child welfare cases, permanently severing the legal relationship between parent and child. Washington courts only pursue this extreme measure when clear evidence shows...
How can parents handle holidays when they share custody?
Parents who share custody generally have to make certain compromises with one another. They have to give up some of their time with the children. They often need to cooperate when making major decisions about educational or medical matters. Ideally, parents work...
Reasons to relocate and modify a custody arrangement
Relocation can become difficult if you are a co-parent who shares custody of your child. You may need to ask for the custody arrangement to be modified. For example, say that you and your ex live about 30 minutes apart. You exchange the children on a 3-2-2 schedule,...
Incorporating downtime into your co-parenting approach is healthy
American co-parents understandably often focus on creating schedules filled with enriching activities, school responsibilities and extended family time to better ensure that their children feel supported and engaged. As a result, co-parenting plans rarely address the...
Finding resolution: How ADR can ease child custody conflict
Few things are as emotionally challenging as enduring a bitter child custody dispute, especially during a divorce or the end of a relationship. It can feel like your world is falling down around you, and that your bond with your children may suffer. Battling it out...
Why custody and domestic violence don’t mix
If you are a Washington parent who is facing divorce, determining the custody plan for your children is likely to be foremost in your mind. Since the family law courts are bound to act in the best interests of the children when deciding the custody arrangements, it’s...
How do co-parents make medical decisions for their child?
When parents separate, questions often arise about who can make medical decisions for the child. This depends on legal custody and how it is arranged in the parenting plan or court order. Below are some key considerations. What is legal custody? Legal custody refers...

